"I've been referring to moments like this as the 'oracle' treatment. What if the crush doesn't know what the song really means?"
"...and what if instead of listening to the song, she just asks this question to AI. Losing the experience to decide for herself how a song feels... losing the neuropathways laid down associated with music and that time in her life... losing music."
"Hearing this, I felt like: oh, of course they are asking AI to interpret flirting and ambiguous texts. Reminds me of another interview where a teen was going back and forth with ChatGPT about recommendations for a gift that would match the energy of a guy who brought her flowers"
“I asked [AI] if this guy likes me because of the music that he was sending me... like J. Cole songs and stuff... I was like, if he sends me this J. Cole song, what does it mean? [AI answered] ‘Cole is known for being thoughtful and down to earth, so it's probably someone who thinks that you can handle a little bit of substance.’"
Citation: Nearfield. (2026, April). Spring 2026 Gen AI and social media listening loop [Collection of participant quotes]. Nearfield Listening Library. www.thenearfield.org/quotes/j-cole
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